Chapter I
A good woman’s death
The Sanskrit word sati means ‘a good woman’, a wife who is faithful and true. In time it came to name a woman who died on her husband’s funeral pyre, and in English the practice itself. The name recalls the goddess Sati, wife of Shiva, who in Hindu myth gave up her life in fire after her father insulted her husband. In the myth, however, Shiva was alive; the link with widowhood came later.
The earliest description comes not from India but from Greece. Historians drawing on an eyewitness of the wars after Alexander the Great describe how, in 316 BCE, the two wives of an Indian officer named Keteus disputed which of them should join him on the pyre. In India itself, the first clear record is an inscription of 510 CE at Eran, in central India, stating that the wife of a warrior named Goparaja followed him into the fire. Over the following centuries memorial stones, often carved with a raised arm wearing bangles, appear in many regions.
The practice became most closely associated with warrior and ruling families, above all the Rajputs of Rajasthan, where the deaths of royal widows were celebrated as proofs of honour. Related to it, but distinct, was jauhar, in which the women of a besieged fortress chose death by fire rather than capture, as the bards remembered at Chittor. For those who praised sati, the widow became a protector of her family and a near-divine figure; for those who opposed it, she was a victim of family pressure and of a society that left widows with little place.
European travellers from the sixteenth century onwards wrote many accounts of sati, and these shaped how the outside world saw India. As the historian Andrea Major has shown, their descriptions mixed horror with fascination, and some presented the widows as heroines of conjugal love, others as victims of priestly cunning. Such reports often told readers more about European assumptions than about the women themselves, and they gave the practice a prominence in Western images of India far beyond its actual frequency.